Former Big Brother Naija housemate Tochi has stirred social media controversy after declaring that the financial demands of being a boyfriend in today’s dating culture outweigh those of being a husband.
Posting to his Instagram Story, Tochi wrote: “It’s more expensive now to be a boyfriend than a husband.” The comment quickly gained traction, with screenshots of the post spreading rapidly online and igniting a lively debate.
Supporters of Tochi’s view argue that modern dating culture places high financial expectations on boyfriends—from expensive dates and gifts to spontaneous vacations—without the stability or shared responsibilities that often come with marriage.
However, critics slammed the statement as a sweeping generalisation. Many users pointed out that the long-term financial obligations of marriage—such as mortgages, school fees, and household expenses—are far more demanding than those in a relationship.
Others dismissed the claim entirely, suggesting Tochi’s comment reflects a niche or exaggerated view of modern relationships.
Tochi, known for his candid relationship takes, has yet to respond to the mixed reactions his post has generated.
