Popular Nigerian content creator and TikTok personality, Jarvis, has voiced her frustration over her relationship with fellow streamer, Peller, revealing emotional strains and personal compromises she’s endured.
During a candid live session with Sandra Benede, Jarvis expressed that she often finds herself doing things she dislikes just to please Peller, despite those actions clashing with her personal values and brand identity.
“In the beginning, it was difficult accepting his character. Now I have tolerated so many things that do not suit my brand, things I don’t like doing, things I haven’t done, but I have done it with him online,” she said.
According to her, even when she raises objections to content they plan to share, she ends up conceding because of love. However, once those videos are posted, she bears the brunt of public backlash.
“Who is losing value? Is it me or him? Na woman go dey lose value now, man dey lose value? He can go to his village tomorrow and marry one of his Ikorodu sisters, life moves on. But the lady is the one that will be disgraced,” Jarvis lamented.
She also addressed perceptions that she’s in competition with Peller, pointing out a double standard where her engaging in similar activities as her partner is viewed negatively.
Her comments have since sparked conversation among fans and online observers, many of whom are debating gender expectations, relationship dynamics, and the pressures women face in the spotlight.
