Veteran Nollywood actress Tina Mbah has offered heartfelt advice to her colleagues who often find themselves torn between pursuing their acting careers and maintaining their marriages.
Speaking during a recent episode of Lights, Camera – It’s My Turn, Mbah encouraged female actors to remain observant and not ignore red flags in their relationships, particularly when choosing a life partner who may not support their professional aspirations.
The mother of two drew from her personal experiences, urging her peers not to let marriage hinder their dreams. “He met you an actor, he married you an actor, there was no issue of you are going to leave this job because I am insecure or because we need to raise our children,” she said. “Then you got married thinking that now you are going to fly, and then the man comes and tells you, ‘No, you’re going to sit.’”
Mbah stressed the importance of open conversations before marriage, advising women to secure their career boundaries early on. “The signs are always there. Don’t ignore it. Watch him, watch her. You need to have a discussion with the person. If need be, you need to sign an undertaking that you would not make me leave my career. Because did he leave his job?” she asked.
Highlighting the value of self-worth and resilience, the actress reminded women that marriage should not come at the cost of their identity or passion. “Marriage is important but nobody put a gun to my head or to your head to do it. There are so many people in this world. If this didn’t work, another may work,” she said.
“Just be true to yourself. Don’t go for the dazzles, be an antique babe like me,” she added with a touch of humour.
Mbah’s message has resonated with many fans and industry colleagues who continue to applaud her for championing women’s independence and authenticity in the entertainment industry.
